In the midst of all the holiday madness that seems to begin earlier and earlier each year, it’s easy to forget that we’re creating family memories and traditions with all the things we do (or don’t do). Our visions of a perfectly set table laden with a picture-perfect delicious holiday dinner can come to a screeching halt with the challenges of massive to-do lists, blended families, and over-commitments. Many times, creating traditions and holiday memories just kind of happen by accident. Having the Talk of a Lifetime is a way to make and preserve memories and traditions a primary focus of your holiday this season.
So how can you create holiday memories and traditions while staying sane at the same time? It can be done!
- Focus – Take a few minutes, and decide what your priorities are this holiday season. Have the Talk of a Lifetime and reflect on what matters most to you and your loved ones. Chances are, there are some details that take a lot of your time that just aren’t worth it. What will bring you joy and maximize your time spent with your family and friends? Staying up until midnight making homemade pies the night before your celebration may not make the cut.
- Open Your Table – Invite a friend or someone you know will be alone for the holiday. That generosity is truly a gift for everyone.
- Delegate – It’s really not realistic (or fun) for one person to handle the bulk of the preparation and cooking. It’s such a treat to taste everyone’s specialties, and it’s a lot less work for the host.
- Share Your Stories – Make it your mission to plan something special, whether it’s playing the Have the Talk of a Lifetime Conversation Card game at the dinner table or a pre-holiday scavenger hunt. It should involve everyone and most importantly, share people’s stories. These are the perfect moments to hear about older family members’ lives.
Breathe Deep, and Enjoy
It’s funny to realize what people remember from the holidays. Usually, they’re things like the time the dog ate the pumpkin pie off the table or Mom burned the turkey. But, if they take the time to Have the Talk of a Lifetime with older family members, they’ll also know about Grandma and Grandpa’s wedding day and what it was like when they were growing up. Learn more about Have the Talk of a Lifetime by contacting us for more information.